Even though I am surprised your daughter feels she should gift him on his 3rd wedding -- I'm for helping your daughter out! YOU are the fortunate one here - done with him, 3 great daughters, and a loving husband who even appreciates sewing! Unfortunately I have an ex and went thru a mean and nasty divorce after 20 years marriage.. Fortunately, that is in the past and my significant other AND I are very good friends with him??!!? God forgives me and this was probably the biggest challenge or lesson that I ever had!! I didn't read all the posts but sure do admire valsma's son!! She has to be proud she had a part of his rearing! Only if more parents thought of their kids more than themselves!! But this should be a decision you can live with!