Help her and imbue it with love...for her. You obviously did raise her right. This will bring you and your daughter closer, pass on a skill to her, and then, for giggles, think about how they will feel sleeping under something you helped with! when my daughter was in kindergarten and her father had a new girlfriend, for her 30th birthday, Joy wanted to bake a cake for Yvonne, the step=mother. so of course we did that, decorated it as if it were the most gorgeous cake on earth, then I wondered, will they eat it? will they think I spit in it?? LOL. It gave me smiles for a long while!