Originally Posted by
ogama
what would you do if your ex is getting mararied and she want you to help her make him a quilt for the wedding.
You may hate your Ex however from that relationship came your children and therefore regardless of what she intends doing with the quilt I would help her. Help doesn't mean make the whole quilt it means just that help so give assistance and encouragement with the project where asked. Ensure you have worked out the ground rules of what your "help" will involve prior to her starting the project. She must know of your animosity towards her father so it should come as no shock that you don't feel comfortable doing anything for him. However it does show her that you are big enough to put this aside for her sake when she needs you and help "her".