I would help her gladly. He's your ex not her's. You'll look great in her eyes and it will surprizingly enough help heal any old wounds---yours, hers and his too.
Two years ago my grown step daughter called me and asked for my help writing her grandmother's obituary----my dh's EX MIL!!!! I took a deep breath and helped her do it. While helping her I held my tongue and didn't mention how I truly felt about that manipulative witch and her hateful self-centered daughter.
Last edited by raptureready; 11-28-2011 at 04:00 PM.