I felt she really did not want me to buy the fabric, she is manipulative. Anyway I called her and told her I was not interested anymore. She called twice pestering my husband. He is less subtle than me. So to feel better I took some quilt patterns, fabric and pre-cut squares to a fellow church member who wants to learn how to do a quilt. She and her husband helped us move and she is a saint to help daughter raise three grandchildren. I guess sometimes you have to do something good to help others.