I would do what I wanted to do in my heart...but I know I love giving way more than recieving...My wife would be wrapped in that quilt on Christmas night...its a gift of your love and labor...a gift from your heart not a gift only because you would recieve one in return. Christmas is about love...giving it...not keeping it ...and thats what the quilt is...I do hope he finds a way to gift you something...gifts dont have to cost a thing...it can be an act of kindness. We have done the no gifts Christmas in the 37 Christmases past but seems we never abide by them. We always find somethign we can do for each other that means more than anything that we could purchase in a store
I wish you blessings