Now if we were talking about my husband my answer would be no, don't give. He hates shopping that much.
You can always tell your husband that your part of the gift you received was being able to make the quilt. We all like fabric and quilty stuff for gifts. The stuff you used for his quilt just came to you a little ahead of Christmas. The giving of a handmade quilt is defintely a gift to yourself. I guess it really all boils down to how will it make him feel if you give it to him and he has no gift for you? As said earlier in this thread maybe wait till New Years and then it can be a "just because I love you gift".
Robin in TX