I love my friends and family, but I expect a call to see if I'm here or if I have time for visitors or not.
I have always been this way since I've been on my own. I had no choice when I lived at home, but I do now.
I feel it is very rude to take someones time without asking. I never drop in on anyone and neither does my husband. I now live behind a locked gate about 3/10s a mile from my house, so It is good if you call as you might waste your time comming here. Please give me a call a few days ahead to make an apt and I'll do the same for you.