Originally Posted by
jaciqltznok
boy..if only....sadly the grown up in me does not allow me to say these things...sigh...
A grown up should have the comfort to say NO, when that's what they mean/
A grown up should not feel they have to do things, just to please others, to keep up with the Jones', or because it looks good.
A grown up should do things because they want to, care to, wish to, and with sincerity.
.... and when saying no, there's no reason to feel you have to justify it or explain it to others. You have your reason(s) and that's all that matters.