Right after we were married our first Christmas- my MIL insisted we have dinner with them- umm okay, so she gave DH an elaborate gift of monies, and I got an ugly green sweater that was marked down from May D&F. Oh okay.. so he gets monies and I get an ugly sweater that didn't fit and looked like it had been returned with snags all in it and was on sale ? ummm needless to say, how to PC this one .. can't LOL The relationship between us has been (MIL) has been very very rocky !LOL shoulda known !LOL when I got the sweater.. LOL Don't worry I am polite as polite as I can be when they (the in-laws) are around !! LOL