My mother sent me a used sweater from Goodwill. She has always given me items that were used or cheap. My brother and sister-sister especially always got the 'good' stuff. Money, designer clothes, just because gifts. I am older than they are by 7 and 8 years and dark while they are light-Can we say redheaded stepchild? Except that I am not a step child she just treated me like it.