Two hair do's and two facials?? My personal opinion is it's a little early to give a wonderful gift like that. If you stay with her for a while and she continues to give you good service then go for it. Meanwhile through discussions with her when you are there, you can casually drop certain facts about long arm quilting, fabric, the amount of time that goes into your hobby, etc. If she does get a lap quilt she will be much more appreciative knowing what goes into it.