Tis the season for giving...... I personally would not hesitate to give her the quilt, or give her one for her daughter. Anything, I am sure would be greatly appreciated. It is what it is....a gift. Since you are planning on going back to her, it appears she is doing a great job on your hair for you. Heavens knows, it is hard to find someone who does our hair just how we like it....especially enough to go back to them. Merry Christmas!!