Well I don't worry about that. We make it well known that we do not want anybody to spend their money on us. Things are hard for most of the family right now and we feel the gift part is more enjoyable to the little ones in the family; besides we buy for ourselves throughout the year and don't really need anything. We tell the kids to take any money they would have spent on us and buy for their kids. To me the time spent with the family is the only gift I need.