Originally Posted by
TanyaL
Now that it is almost time to open gifts are you dreading to find gifts from people you truly love, but gifts that you don't want at all? I am frequently given knick-knacks that are meant to sit upon my shelves or tables and look decorative. My question is, how many years do they think I will dust these things? I have a few dearly loved pieces I have willingly dusted for 37 years or more. I have some I have dusted for 2 years. I have others that are kept in a drawer and only brought out to display when the donor is coming to visit. Most of the gifts are in the category of, "If I put this on the shelf,I have to take off what is there now. NO WAY. I'll regift this new gift, or just put it in for Goodwill." But that gives me a guilt complex. How do you deal with this problem? How do you keep from getting your decorating all messed up with things you would never ever have chosen to buy yourself? I usually use them for awhile, but then what?
I just tell everybody in advance what I want. That is what I get. My house looks like a flea market from all the past knick knacks I have received.