My DH and I are widows from long wonderful previous marriages. We do Christmas very low key. . . no gifts and no decorations. We "do" our family and we go there or we did until this year. We both have respiratory "crud" and are pretty miserable. Lots of others in our area have it so we aren't going to see anyone and share our misery. Still, it's a pretty good day. DH is running fever and has gone back to bed. My fever has finally broken for good so I am finishing a bowl of soup and will go snuggle with him and scratch his back to wake him up.
We are warm and together and Christmas is still good!