My husband and I pre-empted this problem by suggesting each (grown) child in the family who wanted to get us something, make a contribution to Heifer International in our honor. We said we'd add what it took to provide a goat for a desperate family. Between what we received in checks made out to Heifer from his kids and grandkids and my brother and his family, we were able to 'upgrade' to a Llama! Nothing to moooove, store, dust or wonder 'what were they thinking!' when you open it, just a really warm (almost as good as a quilt) feeling for each of us!
If you aren't familiar with Heifer International, check out their website at Heifer International.org. Of course all kinds of charities would serve the same purpose - but we asked for this very early in the year and reminded everyone we were serious around Thanksgiving. Try it... It will likely make you happy too!