I do not agree. We had a very nice Christmas - free from hustle, bustle, and feeling over-obligated and stressed. I baked our annual cookies on the 24th and mid-way through my oven died. My husband and I looked at each other, laughed and said, "At least we are not expecting 15 people for dinner!" We enjoyed a pared down holiday this year, buying only a few gifts for our two kids. I was worried my son would be disappointed since last year (the first Christmas after his Grandma passed away) we went a little overboard in the present department. He did not even notice the reduction - was just as happy with the fewer gifts he received and so were we.
We ended up cooking our dinner on our barbecue grill in 40 degree weather (mom's electric skillet saved us on the breakfast end of the meal). It was a great way to spend the day and for the record, you CAN cook potatoes au gratin on the grill!!! They came out delicious! We had our cookies for dessert.
For my family, this Christmas was done on a simple scale, within budget, and without stress. My husband and I focused on enjoying time with each other and our two kids and celebrated just the way we like it. I did miss seeing other family members (no one lives close to us) but I have no complaints about how I spent my holiday.
For those of you who lost loved ones this season, I offer my deepest condolences. The holidays are one of those times when memories of loved ones who have left us are fresh and we miss them the most. I have loved ones that I missed dearly this time of year, but I like to think they are with us in spirit and celebrating right beside us.
Christmas should not be a stress-fest and an endless series of sacrifices and obligations. I hope that those of you who dread next year have the opportunity to relax and enjoy the holidays of 2012.