I am truly sorry for all of you who have lost someone you love at this time of year. Christmas has always meant a time with family so it is a hard thing when one member is missing. Since my kids are all grown up, Christmas has never been the same. My youngest lives in Australia with 3 of my GK who are still little. I miss them but skyping works for us. My tree was taken down yesterday and I don't miss it. Gives me more room in my home.