I am loving your philosophy regarding gifts - since I started quilting/sewing - I really try to make a quilt or some handmade item for birthdays and christmas - my kids (all grown) really love them and they last - the grandkids are young and have their own quilts too - I really enjoy making the gift - picking out the fabric - making it personal for that person - it brings both parties joy - so cheers to you and I think handmade is the way to go.