Originally Posted by
Sandygirl
I look at it a different way. Anything that has to do with ones' "decor" and tastes is very personal. Unless the recipient was involved in the choosing of pattern, colors, etc. it would be awkward to expect them to be head over heels with such a gift unless they truly love it. Giving a king sized quilt implies that they must use the quilt and if they don't "like" it, it gets awkward. I would never just make a large quilted piece such as a bed quilt without their involvement and input. I would make smaller items such as a throw or bed runner or table runner or whatever. Then if they don't like it , you are not out as much $$$ and time.
I totally agree with you.!!!!!!!
I only make throws for my friends,use the colors of their decor, and so far everybody has been happy.
I don't even have a full size quilt on my beds. I make oversized throws and just put them on the foot of the bed.
Quilts are too warm in the summer here and not warm enough in the winter, at least for me.
Everybody has their own personal style, and I would never presume that people have to love it, just because I spend my money and my time making it.When I choose to make a quilt for somebody I will give them MY gift and than it is Theirs, to do with as they please.
I guess it kind of sounds cold hearted, but this is the only way for me to keep from getting my feelings hurt