I understand how you feel. I think you should finish the quilt and give it to them ,since you sorta already did. Then according to their responce at that time, you can determine if you should ever give them another hand made gift. I'm sure you made it with love, don't let them spoil your joy. If you're like me , love quilting and enjoy gifting my creations. keep doing what you feel good doing.....Post a picture of that wonderful creation, and let us see it, and watch all the compliments.