Originally Posted by
Shelbie
You should be the supporter and not the planner. I'd do what your daughter asks but as it is not your wedding, let her take the lead.
Agree -- this is your daughter's wedding. If finances are limited (as was our case) we just told her this is what we have to spend on your wedding and then handed her the money in an envelope and then said when it's gone, you will have to make up the rest. Really helped in her planning as to what she really really wanted in the wedding. She had a tasteful and meaningful wedding.