Since my daughter is only 12 I won't have to worry about it for a few more years. Many, many years ago my sister adopted a 5 yr old girl. Her natural grandmother was no longer able to care for her and put her up for adoption with the stipulation that she still be allowed to be grandmother. Well, Mary (the grandmother) was adopted by and adopted our entire family. One year she made beautiful knit stockings for all of us. I still have mine, my ex husband's and mom's. Since DD was named after mom, dd inherited mom's stocking. The ex's name was taken off and current dh's name embroidered on. When Josie's grown I guess she'll take her stocking with her.