Robyn,
I was saddened to hear of the loss of your beautiful granddaughter. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Just as Quilty-Louise said, there are plenty of us on the SP board who would be willing to help you out, should you need it, to get your SP package out. All you have to do is ask.
And, I, like Onaemtnest, completely understand if you are my SP. Family is far more important than worrying about sending out a package in your time of grief.
Lots of Hugs, Jennifer