By all means, stick with your quilt as you go through this trial in your life. You will find a lot of comfort in every stitch and idea. It's sad to here about your husband. And the reasons you are where you are. But by keeping your hands and mind busy, during this time will aid in the strength that you need. For both you and him. And when the quilt is finished, and you look at it. You'll remeber where your strength came from and all the warm wishes and prayers that are sent your way. Lots of people here that will help guide you over the bumps. But only one set of footprints, when you need to be carried. Prayers