Lisa, you can do it!! I had 28 years and walked out with nothing except my life. The judge was angry with me for not demanding more, but my life was more important than having a vengeful guy trying to get "his" money back.
Take an adult ed course, do something to change your view, go to work, if you don't already, Go to a self help group anything that will brighten the day -- and lean on us all.
Mim
Bad things happen - but life is good.