help me see this from another perspective, please
OK, here's the story, the longer version. I send large charity quilts to an organization in TN. I promised one in October and it took forever for me to get to the USPS. So, to "apologize" I whipped up a second quilt and sent both on. IMHO, they were really pretty, well-made and imbued with love quilts. I never heard back from the woman about whether they were received. So I had to email her. they were received and she apologized for forgetting to email me. Am I viewing this wrongly? I was upset that I took the time to get her the quilts and send them which wasn't totally cheap and she "forgot"? I know and keep trying to remind myself the purpose is not for the thanks but for the gifting. am I wrong to be upset? And,what should I do? I liked that the quilts were going to adults and not children (though I do gift my local LINUS as well) but I really don't want to send anymore to this organization. It is not the first time I've had to follow up about the quilts arriving.