To change the subject a little. I am still waiting for a Thank You for a wedding gift I mailed 2 yrs ago and gave one in person in Nov. One year I mailed one for a June wedding and got a thank you in Dec. I know brides are busy getting ready for a wedding or enjoying life as married but if I took the time to buy and mail a gift I EXPECT a thank you. Do I call family and ask "Did you get my gift"? They seem to have time to go scan in gift registries.