My thoughts, at this time, are with paulina in that it may be difficult to respond because of high volume of work and low numbers of workers. Many of these workers must be volunteers. I know, personally, that I like and would expect a simple reply. This is human and normal. I think that maybe we, as quilters and givers, could try to not get upset at non-profit organizations when we do not receive a response. On the other hand, I believe that it is crucial that a gift to an individual be recognized. I became involved in a situation last year where we (quilt board members) were asked to make "shrouds" or give colored sheets w/designs on them to cover our soldiers who die at Veteran's hospitals. I believe I sent 4 sheets but never heard back from the nurse who asked for them. I too was hurt and surprised at the non-response. My reaction to this was not to do or send any more sheets. In retrospect, I believe that I should have been more empathetic to this caregiver and lowered my expectations of her. I believe that in this instance, I was the one who "let the ball drop" and not her. I actually am ashamed of myself for my reaction. Plan to be more empathetic and less expectant in the future. Just my thoughts. Hopefully, they will help you feel better about yourself and your charitable work. I actually learned many years ago that if you give something to someone because you believe you will get something in return, you will most likely always be disappointed (and this is in regard to my own family). Yolanda Wood River