You are not alone. My mess up wasn't as painful as yours but I do feel your pain - just to a lesser degree.
I basted my last quilt with the top/batting on the wrong way also. Thank goodness it was spray basted and that I caught it before I quilted it all! I had only gone around 1 block using stitch in the ditch so it wasn't too difficult to unsew and reposition. I do the same thing as Lisa all the time. It makes me so mad at myself!