I was pondering this idea recently. We have been sold the idea that getting older is a bad thing. Whether male or female. If you are 60 you must look act, and feel 30 or there is something wrong so you need to get work done , take pills or diet some crazy way , exercise crazily. You must show your bones or you are fat. You are also not allowed to be sad or feel grief (for more than the alloted time) . Sounds like the old song. Everything you think, do and say is in the pill you took today.