Why? She won't appreciate it anyway. As long as you keep worrying about what you've done wrong, you're giving her power to control you. Just act as if there's nothing at all wrong and treat her the way you normally would. There are some women that can't stand to share their "man" even with his family. She may be so insecure that she resents the time he spend with you. Instead of trying to make up to her just tell her that if she wants to act the way she's been acting that it's her business but you aren't going to let it bother you any more. My husband's sister hasn't spoken to me in years. Except for at family reunions. lol I always make sure I ask how she is in front of one of the aunts so that she has to answer in a civil manner. It really gets her goat. Your brother is probably just trying to keep peace.
Last edited by raptureready; 01-30-2012 at 07:54 PM.