I remember the first time I went to a state guild retreat, I went by my self. But I wasn't a stranger very long. Everyone was so friendly and nice. When they found out I was by myself they invited me to sit with them, eat with them and I had a great time. I have also been to several with a friend. Had a great time always. Is there a quilt guild near you that offers retreats? Also you can check with local quilt shops and look on the internet for retreats in your area. Good luck finding one, I know you will enjoy it.