I raised 3 children, worked 5 days a week, keept a clean house, laundry done twice a week, weekend activities for children (horse shows, fishing, camping, 4-H, Scouts) DH worked nights. When I wanted to sew my 3 were right there with me, toys on floor,cutting area (when I wasn't cutting) painting, coloring, or if they wanted, sewing, never took them to a sitter or to grand parents. At that time we did't have time off from being a Mom LOL my three learned to leave the sewing machine and Iron alone! Untill I taught them how to use it. Then never complained about waiting for me to pick fabric, or doing anything else. If they started fussing or screaming I just stoped what I was doing and took them home, we live out in the country, going to town was a treat for all of us. Only had to do that twice, child #3 learned by watching . LOL Nap time and after bed time were for suprise sewing.