I started reading about laundry tips and saw that this became about veterans' benefits and healthcare. I am so, so sorry about what you and your husband have been going through. This is simply not acceptable in the US. We must treat our veterans with respect and provide the care they need. Do not rest until you get what you deserve. Write your Congressman, or write the President. Some TV stations have investigative journaling in the news segment. Try contacting them. Please tell your husband we thank him for his service.