i
did answer this question by email.
in case there are others who also don't know:
go to the blog itself.
pass cursor over the entry/comment title until the little yellow pencil appears.
one of the edit options is deletion.
the delete results in what's called a "soft delete".
the blogger and moderators can see the annotation of deletion. others don't see it at all.
after more testing i discovered that only i can physically remove it (vs. soft-delete.)
if you want the entry/comment fully and physically removed, send me a link and i can do that for you.
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