I have recently been asked to do 4 memory quilts. I asked the families for more idea of what they want. It may seem hard to do at first, but it will really help both of you to get what the family really wants. I asked how big, if they want a certain pattern, etc.... They may have some special momentoes they would like included too. I also like the idea of adding pictures. I think the name, birth & death dates added somewhere is a must. Just my thoughts....