I like to hand quilt at my floor Q-snap frame that I got with a 50% off coupon. I put my layers in taut and when I am sure everything is smooth and wrinkle free, I lightly press down in the center of the frame to create a bit of slack. A too tight frame will have the needle popping right back at me as I try to load my needle. It sounds like you have the basics down and you will get better with practice. I quilt with a metal thimble on my index/pushing finger. I have one with good needle dimples on top. I also like to quilt sometimes with a thimble on my thumb. I use this method to quilt away from myself and because my thumb is stronger, I find it fast and easier. Good luck and keep hand quilting!