Jan, you are NOT going anywhere! You are with us for the long haul! This is a hobby, right, so do what will make you happy. The fabric choices are just that - choices. Everyone is doing what they want with that. I have no clue who will get this quilt when I'm finished. I have some grandsons that might like it???? I might even make it into two lap quilts like I did the FWS quilt. I do know that I'm going to piece all the extra pony fabric on the back of the quilt(s) when I'm done. Don't know what I would do with it otherwise.