I agree. Don't do anything until you've walked away from it for a day or two. Then when you look at it again, take in the whole quilt with your eyes don't immediately look at the border. Another thing to try is look thru a pair of binoculars backwards or go to the hardware store and get a peep hole insert for a door to look through. These will provide a distance view if you don't have room to lay it out and stand back a good distance to view the whole quilt