What an interesting old woman! I think I might have engaged her in a discussion of what she meant by cheating and defiling, not in a combative way, but just to hear more of her opinions. Sometimes people start out on the offensive just because they want to get a conversation started. I think the loss of the speech filter is often a part of the aging process. It seems that she wanted to talk to someone. I hope someone talks to me when I'm old and crabby. DH says I'm halfway there, and I'm not sure which half he means. LOL