I don't know where the quilts will go exactly...but I am aware of a charity that sends quilts to very remote areas and they REQUIRE them to be useful and warm...not pretty. They are in dirt, mud and will not be pretty for long. So, perhaps you could ask who is getting them first and if it is this type of place they donate...then I say it is OK to continue. But if they are going to hospitals, children etc...then yes...prayerfully say something. And from my experience...it hard to change old ladies minds...so you might want to find a different group if your suggestions are not considered.