Well I was taught that you give what you would like to have. If I cant give something I would be proud or thankful to use I wont give it. I withdrew from a group like you mentioned. I now donate my beautiful hand pieced or hand quilted pieces to people who have been flooded or burned out and need coverings for the beds to be replaced in order to live. It makes me feel so blessed to do this. Try it you will like it LOL