My grandmother was the epitome of a real perfect lady In spite of a particulary harsh life she never had a bad word for anyone Evwn if some ome was rude she would reply politely> If she was offered something she didn"t like< she would say nicely< "no thank you" If pressed< she would just say "No thank you>I don"t care for that" her mantras were
politenes is ro do and say the kindest thing in the kindest way and Do unto others as you would do unto them
rude peop:e were to be pitied they just don"t know any better>