Being new to quilting, I have struggled with this. My husband will inquire, "Why are you making that for XYZ? They won't appreciate it." And, deep down, maybe they won't, but that's not why I made it. I made it as a gift, and after its left my house, I have to let it go. I do wonder if the quilt is wearing well, etc., but I'd hate to ask and seem like I want more accolades.