My DH and I celebrate our 10th this Sunday.....as you can tell, we both have a sense of humor.(We got hitched on April Fool's Day)! His wife had passed 10 years earlier, and I just didn't make it with my then current husband. I think this is the one....too old to change again anyway....HeeHee. I really commend all those that have made it for 40 plus years.....I can't imagine. My first husband passed, the second was not a good match and this third is a keeper......thank God!!!!!