i have a grandaughter that is single and Pregnet and only 18 believe me I thought of plenty of things I WANTED to say but I thought about it and instead I congratulated her and we talked about the baby to be and how precious babies are. It certainly paid off for me to do that. She used to call me maybe once a month but because I am suporitive of her she now calls me everyday and we have created a bond that is very strong. I am so glad I didn't say the first thing that came to my mind because than we wouldn't have this wonderful bond' I may not like it but I can't change it and times have changed a lot since I was young