I think they are both beautiful and yes, I'd give that crib quilt away in an instant. I happen to love non-conventional baby quilts!
Incidentally, I think the colors look very nice together. If you are not pleased with the way the colors came out, perhaps a split-complementary scheme is just not one that appeals to you?? I find that when it comes to color schemes, personal preference is a huge factor and even if a scheme works according to "the rules" you may not like it.
For what it is worth, I think they are both gorgeous!