I used to be able to keep the house clean. Not so anymore. I think I am busier now than when the kids were home and there was a 1000 things going on. My dh is retired now and we spend a lot of time together - bicycle rides, motorcycles rides, flea markets, thrift stores, ..... Throw in some computer time and some sewing time, and the housework time is used up. And so is most of my energy. Like someone else said - come on over if you want to visit me; I don't care if you drop in but don't be offended if the house isn't clean. I would hate to have to think about moving and all the work involved. Just take things a little at a time and you'll be amazed at what you can accomplish. Good luck!